WHEN YOUR HUSBAND IS NOT A DIGITAL NOMAD

I enjoy my life as a digital nomad.

In fact, I'd wager that I like almost everything about it. I don't mind being alone...being alone allows me to focus fully and work at peak efficiency.

I used to be so distracted at work by people socializing. I've always preferred - FOCUS & LEAVE - to socialize, work, socialize, work.

And if I find myself going too long without human interaction, I never have a hard time finding it.

Being in a relationship with someone who is not a digital nomad is the most difficult thing for me. This has been difficult to navigate. And we're still discovering!

We were in the same boat for the first few years of our relationship. In general, yes. I had more vacation time, but we both had to work every day.

When I had to go into office, I never felt satisfied with my job. I just knew it wasn't how I wanted my life to be organized. It had nothing to do with the company, culture, or people. I miss my old team and keep in touch with them. I just thought driving an hour everyday to get to the office was a waste of time.

I've always been very particular about how I spend my time. I believe it's because I'm acutely aware of how limited our resources are. So I try to avoid doing anything that wastes the little time we have and always try to maximize my time. But I'm digressing.

Everything changed abruptly three years ago, and I was able to begin working remotely. I believe it was difficult for my husband to no longer be in the same boat as me as I embarked on new ventures and adventures.

But, as I've told him many times, he, too, could have this lifestyle if he gave up his job and learn the trends! LOL

There was a time when I believe both of us were just confused. He was hurt that I wanted to travel, and I was hurt that he didn't support me in following my dreams.

I was worried that our relationship wouldn't be compatible with the new person I was becoming...a person who took risks and followed her dreams. Someone I admired and aspired to be. And I hoped deep down that he would love as well.

We arrived here in Dubai after a lot of communication and awkward conversations. But I'm pleased to report that we're in a good place and that we're as strong as ever. It's amazing how much can change in a matter of months.

When you travel a lot, I think people have a tendency to think you're running away from something. However, for those who truly enjoy travel, it is never about running away...it is always about running towards the best version of yourself. When I was traveling, I always felt the lightest and happiest. It reawakens in me a creativity that I haven't fully explored since childhood. It motivates me by exposing me to beautiful places and people.

When you travel a lot, I think people have a tendency to think you're running away from something.

However, for those who truly enjoy travel, it is never about running away...it is always about running towards the best version of yourself. When I was traveling, I always felt the lightest and happiest.

It reawakens in me a creativity that I haven't fully explored since childhood. It motivates me by exposing me to beautiful places and people.

There is room in life for all kinds of adventures, especially those that require growth, courage, and confidence. And the ones about connection and deepening your relationship that you share.

And when I travel, I completely miss him. That, I believe, was also important for him to hear. It's not about trying to flee.

So, if you and your partner don't have the same life setup right now, don't give up.

Not everything is lost. And, to be honest, no one knows what will happen in the future.

It's a long life, and things can change quickly. But the most important thing is that you always over communicate....determine what is causing your dissatisfaction with the situation.

Because that is the most effective way to find a solution and move forward.